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Why I Gave Up on Trying to Motivate Myself to Eat Healthy

Last weekend, I gave a talk at a small conference focused on personal growth for moms. My presentation included a few of my usual topics, like busting the myths that there are “good” and “bad” foods and that willpower is an essential piece of the healthy-eating puzzle.

Then, I added on a concept I’ve been working on with clients but was including in a public talk for the first time: the idea that if we need motivation to eat healthy, we are out of alignment.

Instantly, hands were in the air. I was quickly humbled as it became clear that for many people in the group, this was not the mind-blowing nugget of wisdom I thought it was.

Instead, I had confused everyone.

For the next few minutes, I listened to their questions and did my best to clarify why I believe, despite a widespread narrative to the contrary, that motivation is not what we need to move us forward.

However, I’m not at all confident that my explanation did the trick. So, in today’s post, I’d like to give it another try.

Let’s start by defining our goal. (Because upon reflection, I think that some of the confusion at my talk stemmed from confusion about the goal).

The goal is NOT healthy eating.

Whaaat? But certainly healthy eating is a noble and worthwhile pursuit?

Sure, it can be. But it wasn’t for me. And if you’re reading this, I’d be willing to bet that it’s not a great goal for you either. Because when we prioritize healthy eating above all, we put physical health up on a pedestal, justifying its pursuit even if it comes at the expense of our mental and spiritual well-being.

We need to think bigger than healthy eating.

We need a goal that elevates ALL of who we are. One that brings us into balance instead of out of it.

That goal is food freedom.

I define food freedom as a relationship with food that nourishes our body, mind, and soul, thereby allowing our food to fuel us to fully live a life that we love.

With food freedom, there’s no obsession, shame, or deprivation. No body-bashing. No rules. And no need to motivate yourself to eat in the way you think you “should.”

At its core, food freedom actually has nothing to do with food. Instead, it’s about being in a loving, accepting, and trusting relationship with your body – and with (all parts of) your self.

Think about it. If you truly loved, accepted, and trusted your body, you would listen to her.

You’d honor her cravings.

You’d allow her to enjoy the act of eating.

You wouldn’t cause her pain by eating too little, too much, or foods that don’t make her feel good.

Instead, you’d seek to give her pleasure by choosing foods that make her feel energized, vibrant, and alive.

And here’s the kicker:

If you were in a loving, trusting, and accepting relationship with your body and all parts of your self, you would just DO all of this, because you couldn’t not.

When we’re in alignment in mind, body, and soul, we naturally do what’s best for us. There’s no need to go through a process of motivating ourselves. We don’t have to THINK about making choices that promote our health and well-being – we just DO.

It’s not that trying to motivate ourselves is bad. It’s just that looking at healthy eating through the lens of motivation misses the mark.

It’s like trying to teach a bird to fly by explaining the physics of air pressure and thrust.

If the bird could understand you, your explanation wouldn’t bring him any closer to soaring through the skies. Instead, you would probably make him anxious and cause him to worry that he’ll mess it up. He’d start making pro and con lists (to leave the nest or not to leave the nest?). He’d calculate wind patterns and wonder how many wing flaps he should aim to do per minute. He’d ask every creature that flew by how they maximized their flying experience.

The poor bird would be so caught up in analyzing everything that he’d forget that he has always known how to fly. All he has to do is get out of his head, listen to his instincts, and allow his body to do what it craves to do.

In the same way, we possess the inherent knowledge and desire to eat in a way that nourishes our body, mind, and soul. We’ve just gotten mixed up as a result of all of the noise out there.

Therefore, our task is not to figure out the motivation piece. Our task is to realign ourselves in body, mind, and spirit so that we can access the knowledge that already exists in our DNA – and the food freedom that is our natural state.

How? Stay tuned…

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Trust in the Magic that is YOU

Recently, the mom of a former teen client reached out to me. Her daughter (who I will call Gwen, because that is not her real name) is approaching her 15th birthday. For her birthday, Mom is putting​ together a book that is full of words of advice and courage from women Gwen admires.

I immediately loved the idea, and felt honored when she asked if I would be willing to contribute. Of course my answer was a wholehearted YES!

A few weeks later, I sat down with the prompt Mom had sent. It asked for “words of courage, strength, wisdom that you have from your life and maybe wished a strong woman had shared with you at age 15. Another way to think of it – who were you at 15 and what have you learned? What’s one piece of wisdom you can pass along?”

Here is what I wrote.


Gwen,

When I think back to 15-year-old Annette, the first thing I want to do is give her a big bear hug. At that age, I was a straight-A student. A girl who laughed with my friends over white hot chocolates at our favorite coffee spot. A mediocre sibling to my sister, because I was obviously way cooler than her and her 8th-gradeness. A daughter who took her parents for granted, not realizing that the opportunities and love they gave me were incredible blessings.

But none of that is why I want to give her a hug. I want to give her a hug because 15-year-old Annette was also incredibly insecure. 

Not the obvious type of insecure you could see on the surface. The under-the-radar (or so I thought) type of insecure that had me evaluating my every move, trying to decide if this or that comment or action would make people like me. 

I wanted boys to like me. 

I wanted girls to like me. 

I wanted my teachers to like me. 

I wanted colleges to like me. 

I wanted the approval of the entire world, served to me on a platter, so that I could be assured of my worth.

Gwen, since I’m lucky enough to have spent time in heart-to-heart conversation with you, I know that you are far more comfortable with yourself than I was at your age. 

But I also know that the desire to be liked – the subconscious tendency to give others the power to tell us if we’re good enough – is more or less universal.

So I want to tell you what I wish someone had told me when I was 15:

You are worthy, exactly as you are. There is nothing you need to do, have, or be to earn your worth. And when you know this, deep in your bones, you open a glittery door that leads to a beautiful place within you that is free and at peace, always and forever, no matter what.

Happy birthday Gwen! May you trust in the magic that is YOU.

Love,
Annette

 

Why do I share this?

Because as I was writing it, I felt like I was also reminding my current, 33-year-old self of these truths – and I thought you might like a reminder as well.

As the poet Galway Kinnell says, “Sometimes it’s necessary to reteach a thing its loveliness.

To owning our loveliness,
Annette

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Announcing Food Freedom Book Club!

Health at Every Size: The Surprising Truth about your Weight
By Linda Bacon, PhD

Did you know that no study has ever shown that weight loss prolongs life?

As Dr. Linda Bacon’s book Health at Every Size explains, “Extensive evidence documents that attempts at dieting typically result in weight cycling, not maintained weight loss. Weight fluctuation is strongly associated with increased risk for diabetes, hypertension, and cardiovascular diseases, independent of body weight. The recommendation to diet may be causing the very diseases it is purported to prevent!

Dr. Bacon continues:

“In contrast, whether the concern is type 2 diabetes, atherosclerosis, hypertension, cancer, or a host of other conditions, the evidence is clear: An abundance of studies indicate improvement through nutrition or activity habits, independent of weight loss.”

In other words: Dieting makes your body less healthy. Healthy habits are what create a healthy body – regardless of weight.

If you’re surprised, you’re not alone. We live in a society that is constantly perpetuating the myth that a bigger body is a less healthy body – but that’s just. not. true.

It’s time we reeducate ourselves, don’t you think?

And Health at Every Size: The Surprising Truth about your Weight is the perfect place to start. It’s a life-changing book backed up by over 400 studies, and its approach has been proven to boost health and self-esteem.

Want to dive into it with me?

Actually, let me be more specific. Want to dive into it with me AND a tribe of women who, just like you, are ready to WAKE UP to the fact that our culture’s tightly-held beliefs about healthy living are largely untrue and are messing with our psyches (and physical well-being) in insidious ways?

If you answered a wholehearted YES, keep reading to learn about my newest creation: Food Freedom Book Club!!

Food Freedom Book Club is for you if you are:
  • A yo-yo dieter who wants to trade dieting for an enjoyable (& sustainable!) healthy lifestyle
  • A woman who feels uncomfortable every time you hear a colleague, friend, or family member make a comment about someone’s weight (even if it’s of the “Hey, you’ve lost weight” variety) – but you haven’t been able to put your finger on exactly WHY these comments make your insides feel like you just ate bad Mexican food.
  • A mom who is wondering how you can possibly raise a confident, body-positive daughter who has a healthy relationship with food in our diet- and appearance-obsessed culture.
  • An activist or feminist who wants to scream loud enough to shatter glass every time you hear someone allude to the (still rampant) cultural expectation that a women’s job is to look pretty and stay small, sweet, and quiet.
  • A college student who is ashamed of how much time you secretly waste comparing your butt to your roommate’s.
  • A health professional who struggles to talk to clients about healthy eating and weight without making both of you wish you were somewhere (anywhere) else.

In short, this book club is for anyone who wants to find freedom in their relationship with food and body and be part of a movement towards a more inclusive, respectful, and empowering conversation around health and weight.

Here’s how it works:

Every week, you’ll read 1-2 chapters, according to a set syllabus I’ll provide.

As you digest the content, you’ll have moments of “I must tell someone about this, stat!”

In case it’s not a good time to call your bestie with the news that it’s scientifically proven that diets actually harm your metabolism, you’ll be part of a private Facebook community in which you can share your ahas and enjoy the sense of comradery that naturally arises as a group learns new truths together.

When we’ve had a lifetime of lies hammered into our heads, it takes a while for new beliefs to sink in. Often, we must hear the new information several times before it starts to take hold. To help you integrate what you’re learning, I will release weekly audio recordings with my commentary on that week’s content.

As a former teacher, I know that the absolute best thing I can do to help new information travel from head to heart is to make you live it. Therefore, I will issue a weekly call to action (CTA) based on the key lessons from that week’s content. Each CTA will be a step towards creating a new life for yourself – a life that reflects a newfound sense of FREEDOM around food and weight.

The magic will continue for nine weeks. Eight weeks to read the book at a clip of 30ish pages per week, and then a bonus week to process the work as a whole. We’ll start the first week in April, and end the first week in June.

As I write up all of these details, my heart is buzzing in excitement. And I haven’t even told you about the final ingredient, the crème fraîche on the book club soufflé:

100% of the proceeds from Food Freedom Book Club will go directly towards a non-profit or social enterprise that is working to create a world where ‘healthy’ and ‘empowered’ go hand in hand.

I’ve hand-picked three organizations that we’ll be supporting, each of which aligns with (w)holehearted’s work in its own way. They are:

Parillume: Parillume is a social enterprise committed to transforming the conversation about sexual violation from shame and silence to heroism and fierce hope.  In addition to their services designed to empower survivors to reclaim the treasure of their true selves, they offer monthly SHINE Soirées℠: free community events where they celebrate the triumph of the human spirit in the aftermath of sexual violation.

Why it’s on the list: Unfortunately, it’s common for women to develop a distorted relationship with food and body in the aftermath of sexual violation. But as we work together to help survivors realize that they are beautiful, they are free, and they can shine again (without shame), we go a long way towards helping women to feel confident, healthy, and empowered.

Slow Food Denver: Slow Food is a global, grassroots movement that links the pleasure of food with a commitment to community and the environment. Through its two main programs, Seed-to-Table and Community Table, Slow Food Denver provides opportunities for people to interact with local food producers, learn about food production and support other organizations with similar missions.

Why it’s on the list: A BIG reason that we are collectively suffering from an unhealthy relationship with food is because we’ve forgotten how to slow down, think about where our food came from, and take pleasure in eating. Slow Food Denver’s programs empower people to do just that.

Realize Your Beauty: Realize Your Beauty promotes positive body image to youth through theatre arts. They bring plays, workshops and camps to children and adolescents to promote self-esteem, confidence and kindness towards self and others.

Why it’s on the list: Empowering youth to develop confidence, positive body image, and kindness towards self and others is essential if we ever want to create a new cultural paradigm that elevates mental and spiritual health to their rightful places, equally as important as physical health.

When you sign up for Food Freedom Book Club, you’ll get to choose which organization you want your $20 enrollment fee to support.

$20, you say? That’s it? For all of this?

Yes! (Plus the cost of the book).

When the idea for FFBC came to me, I knew three things from the start:

1) It had to be extremely accessible, so that anyone who wanted to participate could do so (thus the low price)

2) It had to make as great an impact as possible (thus the non-profit/social enterprise piece), and

3) It had to light me up like a firefly on a hot summer night (thus the glittery energy my business accountability partner said she could feel when I first shared the idea with her!)

Basically, FFBC is my way of activating the change that I want to see in the world, in in order to create ripples far beyond what I can do with 1:1 or small-group coaching.

I hope you’ll join me.

Click Here to Sign Up!

 

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Why BMI is a waste of time

You know what’s been on my mind recently?

The correlation between weight and health.

Actually, more accurately, the lack of correlation between weight and health.

Why BMI is a waste of time

Despite the widespread belief that a bigger body equals a less healthy body, research shows that it isn’t that simple. A new study published in the International Journey of Obesity analyzed the link between body mass index (BMI) and several health markers, including blood pressure and glucose, cholesterol and triglyceride levels. What did they find?

  • 47% of Americans who are labeled ‘overweight’ by virtue of their BMIs are cardiometabolically healthy (a fancy way to say that their blood work indicates a healthy person), and
  • 29% of those labeled ‘obese’ are also perfectly healthy, but
  • 30% of those with BMIs in the ‘normal’ range are actually unhealthy, according to their blood work

Surprised? A younger Annette would be right there with you. Back when I was a full-fledged believer in mainstream health messaging, I definitely toted the “bigger body = less healthy” line. After all, we hear it over and over again – from the media, from health experts, even from doctors. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard clients tell me that since they are overweight, they are unhealthy, despite the fact that their blood work looks great. Even with hard numbers in front of us, it’s difficult to overcome societal conditioning that tells us that a higher weight must equal an unhealthy body.

This breaks my heart, as it points to bias against fat people. When we are already predisposed to believe that fat = bad, we accept without question that fat also equals unhealthy.

Let’s start to retrain our brains, shall we?

Here’s the truth: A bigger body is just that – a bigger body. A smaller body is just that – a smaller body. Neither one means that you are more or less healthy. More importantly, neither one means that you are good or bad, or better or worse than any other human being.

We are all worthy, exactly as we are. We don’t have to earn our worth by eating salad or fitting into a size 4. We’re enough when we work out and enough when we hit snooze. The infinite value of our human spirit doesn’t increase when we stick to our diet, nor does it decrease when we eat six cupcakes in one sitting.

I’ve shared this quote from Geneen Roth before, and I’ll share it again:

“It’s never been true, not anywhere at any time, that the value of a soul, or a human spirit, is dependent on the number on a scale. We are unrepeatable beings of light and space and water who need these physical vehicles to get around. When we start defining ourselves by that which can be measured or weighed, something deep within us rebels.”

Mmmm…..how ’bout we breathe into that?

I’m smiling as I read over this post. It’s just like me to start with science, touch on societal bias, and end on a spiritual note!

To kicking BMI to the curb (and reclaiming our worth while we’re at it!),

Annette

P.S. – If you’re like me and it’s important to you to trace news reports back to their source, here’s the link to the original published paper, called “Misclassification of cardiometabolic health when using body mass index categories in NHANES 2005-2012.” Sounds juicy, right? 🙂

The juiciest new podcast out there…

I’m super excited about today’s post; it’s an extra-special one.

Why? Because today, Rachel Sizemore, a good friend of mine, is putting something AMAZING into the world.

It’s called Ripen, and it’s the juiciest new podcast out there. I LOVE Rachel’s ‘why’ in creating it. In her words:

I am on a journey to shift the foundation of my life from one of obligation to one of desire. I hope to connect to myself, to discover my desire, and to move from trust rather than fear.

I hope to ripen into my true power as a woman, a healer and a leader.

I hope to inspire you to discover what ripening is for you.

Since Rachel and I talk weekly, I’ve had an insider’s view into her process of birthing this podcast. And let me tell you: this girl is COMMITTED to showing up for her listeners as her true self. This isn’t one of those “I’m an expert telling you what you do” podcasts. It’s more like, “I’m an explorer, trying to find my way in the world. Want to join me on the journey?”

Rachel was kind enough to let me listen to her first few episodes in advance, so I’m confident in telling you that they rock.

Here’s a taste:

Episode 1: A vulnerable (and very relatable) introduction of Rachel’s intention with Ripen.

Episode 2: An interview with yours truly. I’ve been on a few podcasts, but this is my favorite to date. I think it has to do with the fact that Rachel knows me well, so the conversation just….flowed. Full disclosure: when I listened to it later, I found myself amazed by some of the things I said. “Really, that wisdom came out of my mouth?” Love it when that happens 🙂

Annette Sloan Ripen Podcast

Episode 3: Rachel dives into desire. A topic that seems simple, but is often anything but!

Episode 4: Ooh-la-la – this one is super sexy. Rachel interviews Kit Murray Maloney, founder of O’Actually, about why pleasure matters, why we shouldn’t feel guilty about it, and how to start adding more pleasure into your life right now.

Intrigued? How could you not be, right? Give it a listen, using the links above or by searching ‘Rachel Sizemore’ or ‘Ripen’ on iTunes or Stitcher…and let me know what you think.

To ripening into our power!

Annette

An aha moment crystallized in front of me….

One of my favorite things to do is talk to people one-on-one about the topics about which I’m most passionate. Recently, I heard myself tell a friend how much I love diving deep into juicy subjects like what’s missing in the nutrition world, learning to love yourself, vulnerability and shame, spiritual growth, and so on. I then concluded, “I would spend all my time having these conversations if I could!”

As soon as I heard myself say it, an aha moment crystallized in front of me.

Because I do spend pretty much all of my time talking, thinking, or writing about concepts that endlessly fascinate me. Between client sessions, conversations with colleagues, my newsletter/blog, and all of the personal growth and reading I’m constantly doing…this stuff has become the essence and connecting thread of my life.

The best part is: I didn’t make any of it happen. I have simply been flowing along the river of Life, and the more I let go, the more Life creates opportunities for me to share my gifts with the world.

As Richard Rohr wrote so eloquently:

“We are never “there” yet. We are always just in the river. Don’t try to push the river or make the river happen; it is already happening, and you cannot stop it. All you can do is recognize it, enjoy it, and ever more fully allow it to carry you.”

Recently, the river brought me a beautiful invitation – the opportunity to be interviewed by another amazing soul in the field, the lovely Robin Massey. Check out how fun and creative her bio is:

Robin Massey did gymnastics for a long time (or so it seems to her); sometimes she stills dreams about it (and does cartwheels every morning). These days, she can be found musing on showing up to the hot mess of health and life, recently publishing Nope, You’re Not Crazy: Rising from the Swamp of Disordered Eating and posting regularly on skipthebox.comFacebook, and Twitter. She’s learning that none of us are broken — rather messy and interesting human beings rocking it out the best we can.

Makes you want to be friends with her, doesn’t it?

During our 20-minute conversation, Robin and I chatted about weight loss, feeling our feelings, how to help teens who are struggling with body image, what we’d tell our younger selves if we could, and (my favorite) how shame and love can’t coexist.

Fancy a listen? Check out the interview here!

How to stay sane through the holidays…

7-holiday-parties6-plates-of-cookies5-expensive-gifts

Today is December 8 – the middle of the holidays. As I reflect on the season, I can’t help but think about the Annette of years past. If I were going through this December in the way that I used to, right now I would be:

  • Booked with gatherings nearly every night (White Elephant Party – check. Ugly Sweater Party – check. Gingerbread-House-Making Party – check. Otherwise unspecified holiday happy hour – check)
  • Spending money on gifts for people because I felt obligated to (Well I have to get them something; they got me a gift last year…)
  • Simultaneously complaining about the ever-present cookies/cakes/treats (“I need to get these out of my house!”) while also contributing to the problem (“I need to make cookies for the neighbors!”)
  • Creating ridiculously high expectations for how perfect Christmas Day/New Year’s Eve/this-or-that party would be (joy, fun, and good cheer – every.single.moment)
  • Looking forward to January, when I would finally give my body a break from the constant eating & drinking (New Year’s Resolutions: do a cleanse, work out more, stop hitting snooze)
  • Dealing with the stress caused by all of the above by eating even more (and then beating myself up for it)

Ug. I’m exhausted just thinking about it.Thankfully, this year, I am doing NONE of the above.

Whoa – crazy, right? If someone would have told me a few years ago that they were opting out of these things, I would have been like, “Whaaat? You can DO that?” It would have been a totally new concept for me.

But as it turns out, we don’t have to run through the season like a maniac. It’s actually totally possible to choose an entirely different way of being through the holidays.

All it takes is this understanding: You are allowed to make your sanity and well-being a top priority.

You mean I can say ‘no’ to that party I don’t really want to go to anyway?

Of course! And you don’t even need to say why; a simple “I appreciate the invite, but I’m not able to make it” will do. It’s also perfectly fine to say that you have other plans, even if those other plans involve a quiet night at home with your hubby, eating Chinese takeout by yourself, cuddling up on the couch with a book, or going to bed at 7 p.m. Those things are real plans too – and they’re just as important and legitimate as anything else you could be doing.

But what about gifts? Don’t I have to get gifts for people?

Gift-giving can be a beautiful thing. There’s nothing like coming up with a great gift idea for someone you care about, and then buying or making it with a generous and joyful heart. But be honest – how much of your holiday gift-giving process is coming from this generous and joyful place? In comparison, how much of it is coming from a place of ‘should’ and obligation? What if you could let yourself off the hook for those ‘should’ gifts? Because let’s face it – when YOU are the one receiving a ‘should’ gift, you know it. What if – by opting out of those types of gifts – you could also give other people permission to do the same? Sure, you might have that awkward moment this year of receiving a gift from someone when you didn’t get them anything (and of course you’ll receive it with gratitude and grace). But if that lets BOTH of you off the hook next time, then that’s a WIN for sanity (and bank accounts) across the board.

I could go on, but you get the point, which I will repeat for emphasis: You are allowed to make your sanity and well-being a top priority. During the holidays, and always.

On that note: if part of making your sanity and well-being a top priority means finally figuring out how to create a nourishing, peaceful relationship with food, I’m tickled pink to announce that I will have new offerings coming out in early 2017! Stay tuned…

Also, if one-on-one coaching with me is something you’ve been thinking about exploring (but have been putting on the back burner) – I recommend that you schedule a free consult before the end of the month. I will be putting an indefinite hold on new one-on-one clients after the 1st of the year to give me time to focus on unrolling my new program. Plus, this is a tough time of year for those of us who struggle with food. Having a coach to help you through it could save you from frantically overeating your way through the season…

Sending love and peace your way,
Annette

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A Thanksgiving Gift for You

Today, on Thanksgiving, I want you to know that if you’re feeling anxious about the holiday, you’re not alone.

A day dedicated to collective overeating can be tough on those of us who struggle with food. So, I created something for you – a 10-minute Thanksgiving meditation focused on helping you to feel grounded and connected to gratitude, presence, and openness.

Click here to listen.

 

Thanksgiving Meditation

Love from one (w)holehearted soul to another,
Annette

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What if we’re doing the best we can?

As I’m sure you’ve noticed, I’ve been on a video kick lately! As much as I enjoy sharing thoughts and ideas in writing, I’m discovering that videos allow me to show up in a different way. I’ve been filming them in one take and trusting that the message will come out coherently and in a way that resonates. It’s my way, at this moment, of sharing more of myself – of embodying my personal commitment to show up powerfully, authentically, and from a place of love.

Last Saturday, I got to see one of my most influential teachers, in person! If you’ve been following me for a while, you know that Brene Brown’s teachings have had a huge impact on my life and my work – so to get to see her live was a big deal for me.

I have more takeaways from the day than I can share concisely, but today’s video is about one of my biggest. It all stems from a simple and profound question:

Do you believe that people, in general, are doing the best that they can, with what they know and are capable of in any given moment?

My answer?

Yes.

I really do believe that we’re all doing the best that we can with what we know.

Does that make me naive?

Maybe.

But I’m ok with that, because here’s the thing:

When I believe that people are truly doing the best that they can, it’s easy to be compassionate, loving, and non-judgmental in my interactions with them. 

On the flip side, when I believe that others could and should be doing better, I’m judging them. With judgment comes shame – and we don’t heal, grow, and evolve when we’re in shame. Instead, shame causes us to treat ourselves and others poorly.

To err on the side of believing that we’re all doing our best is to err on the side of compassion and love.

This has REALLY big implications not only for how we treat others, but also for how we treat ourselves.

Watch the video to dive deeper with me, and to go through an exercise on this topic that brings it all home.

After you watch, I’d LOVE to hear your thoughts! Leave a comment below to fill me in on what came up for you.

To healing through compassion, love, and non-judgment,
Annette

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